Recently it has been all the rage about the question and many discussions are currently going on around the subject, of how to use the Law of attraction to attract back your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend you considered to be your soul mate. But is it a question of how to do that or if it is possible at all?
Let's take a look at the basis of what the Law of attraction says: it stipulates to focus on what you truly want, instead of trying to block off what you don't want and feel it with all your emotion as already being true and present in your life. Therein the importance lies in seeing the final outcome with as much detail as can be added to this picture of the final manifestation.
Now the Law of attraction also says that it is based purely on the positive aspect of the outcome and according to your good vibes, you will attract what is aligned with your vibrational energy to form an ideal match. The factor that can be influenced here is the vibration you are emitting, means that you can radiate feelings of deep gratitude for being with a person that might be humorous, loving, kindhearted, generous or whatever character traits you put the emphasis on in having in your ideal soul mate.
You put yourself onto that frequency and are already living in this state of having achieved what you were wanting to attract into your life. It is then that the match to your sent out vibration will be naturally magnetized to you. But this also implies that even though you can influence on which frequency you are vibrating, the other one must be already on that same frequency to feel attracted.
There is no possibility to force your thinking and vibration onto another individual. Just like for you, the other person has the freedom of choice to be selecting what comes into their life. If it wasn't this way, it would mean a violation of their free will and the freedom to live in the way they wish to. So by focusing on a specific person and wanting them to come back into your life, can work, as long as this person feels the same and swings on the same vibration as you.
If on the other hand, the two of you are in separate vibrational states at that same time, it is impossible to find a true match. Therefore my advice to you if you are suffering right now from a breakup and desperately trying to get THE ONE back into your life: be kind to yourself. You are hurting and might not see any way out right now. But if it is meant to be, a way will be made and the two of you will find back to each other.
Take good care of yourself and even though you might need to cry out your sadness during the first days, don't let this situation invade you. Get out in the fresh air, do some sports, meet up with friends, pamper yourself with a good massage or a spa session, go to the movies or do anything else (that is legal ;)) that will help you change your thoughts and make you feel good.
Maybe you also need to analyze a bit (you are probably laughing right now, as all your thoughts are spinning around the same subject and are analyzing the situation to death! ;)) what you could do better the next time and what was also your stake in the breakup. But don't let these thoughts take over your entire day and focus on other things as well. In these difficult moments, distraction and especially the physically demanding sports challenges are often the best remedy to get rid of the negative energy that has built up inside of you.
Allow yourself the time to get back on your feet and once you feel that you're doing better, you can again focus on what such an ideal mate should bring along to be the right partner for you (check out “My dear soul mate - where are thou?”). And once you have gained a little bit of distance to the current situation and have also sorted out your priorities, it just might happen, that a very special person comes into your life and fulfills all your secret desires in what you have been dreaming of in a soul mate and that this person is actually someone else than your ex ;)
All the best to you!